Woohoo! Another California Exotic Novelties Sexpert review! It’s the First Time™ Softee® Pleaser. I gotta say this toy is intriguing to me. When I first received it, I thought that it would just be another G-spot jelly-type toy. But I was impressed three times. First, by the initial feel of the material -*squish squish*. Secondly and Thirdly, by the motor’s strength and sound. This thing BUZZES. And to my surprise – quietly. Well, as quietly as quiet gets considering the high-pitch buZZZZing power this Softee Pleaser punches. Under covers, the motor won’t be heard, for sure. Going along with the “First Time” theme of the toy, is a really nice soft and light mild speed. With the twist bottom, turn it just enough till it turns on and you can feel light and flutterly vibrations, perfect for a first time to begin with. Twist it all the way and POW! The insertable length is 5.25 inches, which is slightly below the average erect penis size of 5.5-6.2 inches.

The tip curves up, which to me simply says: G-SPOT. With any toy of this shape, I recommend using it with a partner when receiving oral sex. The combination of G-spot and clitoral stimulation is sure to satisfy her. With fun groves and ridges along the shaft, she’ll get extra stimulation with the vaginal opening as well.

I can’t really think of any downside or cons to this toy. Though it’s clearly labeled as First Time™, it can still be versatile. For example, take the Softee sleeve off and put it on a finger. Or put it on a bullet. Use the toy without a sleeve vaginally or anally. I can totally see this as a fun toy, without the sleeve, for “First Time” anal play. Totally. The vibe under the sleeve is smooth and thin with a rounded tip. Perfect.

I want to take this moment to thank California Exotic Novelties for sending me toys that I know our customers and party guests are interested in. I can see myself showing this one at my next Fordham or Seton Hall party! This toy is perfect first toy for a young women 18-23. Or any age if they want to begin using bedroom toys.

So today I received my much anticipated September toy. Feeling the bubble envelope from the outside I just knew it was a dual action, rabbit-type vibrator. YES. This is one of the last categories I need to complete in the line and a big THANK YOU to CalExotics for sending me the 10-Function EZ-Bend Bounding Bunny.

The first thing I do when I get a product is check out the packaging. It’s a pretty pinkish-purplish color with a blonde model in a white bra. Typical. I kinda wish it had simple design like butterflies or abstract art, but I also know that the customer throws the packaging away soon after their purchase. So, not that big of a deal. The second thing I do is smell the toy. It certainly passed the chemical-free test as far as scent. But I knew it would, because there is the “Safe & Pure” icon on the package. I love that this little icon is here as it brings awareness to the consumers that there are toxic phthalates in many insertable sex toys. But not this one. The two other icons I noticed were the “Waterproof” and “i10” (for the 10 functions). Functions are the speed and pattern of the vibration. A function can be low, medium, high, pulsing, escalating or a combination of any of these. I just wish there was some direction as to what the 10 functions are. With just 2 buttons – one being off/on and the other for the functions – it’d be nice to know where to find what. I do notice that where you turn the toy off and on, it turns on to the last function you left.  Maybe I’m just being picky, but I like easy to follow format in vibrations. Low, Medium, High, pulsing, pulsing high speed, escalation low, escalation high, etc.

So, the look of the toy is nice. Purple is always a winner with toys. It’s the most preferred color when it comes to toy consumers. I like the bounding bunny clitoral stimulator. It’s as if the rabbit is leaping out with both ears and paws charging to please. The two buttons – on/off and the functions – are on the bottom of the handle/battery compartment. It takes 3 AAA batteries, by the way. This toy doesn’t have the popular rotating beads or pearls. But I’ve come to realize that this is better!
Because the Bounding Bunny has a curved tip for G-spot positioning and bends into permanent shape for precision -awesome for a woman who wants to explore her G-spot and get off, clitorally, while at it. I had to take pictures to show the toy bent to the max both ways. Very cool! This is the type of feature that creates Oooohs and Ahhhs for guests at parties. The icing on my decision to add this vibrator to the Love Love line was the vibration in the shaft as well as the clitoral part. Dual-Motors! But I’ll be naming it simply the “Bounding Bunny.” A customer just asked me the other day for a toy that she can use by herself that is waterproof, not too loud and not too expensive. This is perfect for her.

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One of my favorite music genres to listen to while creating a review or writing an article is decade old trance. Old Oakenfold albums or Tiesto remixed tracks. The voice of Jan Johnston. The progressive wavy beats that would slowly climax into something physically and mentally orgasmic. An ideal song would be at least 8 minutes long. Yeah, that’s my shit. In “my club days”, I’d get all dressed up in glitterwear. No rainbow for me. Think: metallic magenta top and black vinyl bottoms. Platform shoes under flares a must everytime.

This is an item that kinda brings me back. If someone had given me this Lighted Shimmers toy back in 2000, when I was 21, I probably would’ve stopped going out and stayed home A LOT more. Especially considering that I had yet to ever own a toy at that time. Many times, at my parties, I hear women in their early 20’s tell me that this is their first time ever holding a toy in their hands. How I WISH I had the opportunity to attend one of these parties at 21 years old. And this toy would’ve been a perfect first toy!

The Lighted Shimmers LED Bliss Teaser with Extreme Power (that’s the official full name) is a very cool looking, simple to use and affordable bullet toy. Like I said, perfect for the first timer. The controller itself is an oval diamond-cut surfaced “pod” that fits perfectly into the palm with the thumb sliding the wheel to adjust the vibration speed. The bullet wire, plugs into the other side of the wheel. I’ve shown a picture here that displays how comfortable it fits into the hand like a pod. You can also see the iridescent color.

The look of it is appealing and attractive. The manufacturer’s image does not do the color justice. Here below, you see a purple color controller, when it is actually an iridescent purple-to-green on the outside and purple-to-orange in the center, as seen in my own picture. I love it!

The bullet part is not your traditional egg shape. Instead, it is shaped just right for holding the bullet at the top with the vibes on the tip. I love this because the vibes don’t get swallowed into your fingers. They all go where you need them to. Speaking of vibes, I put fresh batteries in and this thing is actually STRONG. A problem I have with strong vibes sometimes is that the first speed is usually strong as well. This isn’t good for the person trying to hold off an orgasm! The Bliss Teaser, however, is pleasantly mild on the first speed.

The LED light puts the party in your pleasure. A pretty blue light does a great job of lighting up a decent radius around the action. Looking for a visual turn on in the bed? Try using this bullet to spotlight sex while you both watch the movement. Hot!

Overall, I thoroughly enjoyed receiving and reviewing this product. The packaging made me smile the instant I saw it – no typical busty woman in seductive pose. Just the product, bright and glowing in all it’s glory taking up almost the whole front cover of the box. When the Lighted Shimmers LED Bliss Teasers become available to order, I will surely add this to the Love Love line. And as I do more reviews, I’ll add some “stars” or grade ratings. Come back soon to read our September Cal Exotics Sexpert review. Thanks for reading!

XOXO Pascale Le Bris

Owner, Love Love Parties

Look at it as not only making someone feel good physically, but also helping to relieve stress and anxiety. Massage has been known to help enhance sleep quality at night and energy quality during the day. It improves concentration and clarity. What I love most about partners massaging each other is how it helps each to get to know each other’s bodies better. If communication is low in the bedroom, a massage is a great place to start. The giver should know what where and how much. The easiest way to find out is to ask.

As you begin a massage, ask if they want a full body or concentrated massage. Maybe they just want their back or just their shoulders, neck and arms. Maybe they want their whole body. You don’t want to leave your partner “hoping” you’ll go somewhere. Asking will make sure you do. As you continue to massage ask if they are enjoying themselves. Do they want more pressure or less pressure? If you are aiming to please your partner, you simply have to know what they want and you get that by asking. They’ll appreciate it for you. You, as the giver, have a responsibility to find out. Thankful receivers might not want to ask “too much” or feel as if they are being demanding. So go ahead and make them comfortable and confident in your ability to please.

There are many tools you can use for massage like vibrating gloves or heat enhancers. Sometimes we underestimate the power that lies in our hands. Within our fingers lie the tools that are our finger tips and knuckles. Our hand holds the strength in the base of the palms. If you make a fist, take a look at the flat surface on the top of your hand. It’s perfect for massage! Don’t forget to take off your rings!

I like to recommend a healthy, natural, vitamin-rich oil with a scent your partner likes. And there we have another thing you should know! Popular scents are vanilla, lavendar, citrus or something spicy like musk or patchouli. This is a total preference issue, so it’s important to make sure it’s a scent they love and not despise!

Again, don’t go and analyze their behavior and make guesses to what they like. It’s so much easier to communicate and ask straight questions. When it comes to relationships, this goes with everything. Why wonder? Just ask.

XOXO Pascale Le Bris, Love Love Parties

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XOXO Pascale * 201-766-9171 * pascale@loveloveparties.com

I just want to introduce my average customer, a new guest at a party, to the intriguing and sexy world of bondage fun! I mean, edibles can only take you so far. That bottle is going to run out sooner or later, that is if you don’t get bored of it and stop using it. But fun bondage items can be used over and over with different scenarios. Bondage can excite your bedroom lifestyle in a whole new way! I’ve also heard tales of where bondage helps to build trust and communication in the bedroom. So, let’s look at a few examples:

* Your hands are tied behind your back. You are restrained from touching your partner. They are teasing you and touching you where you most like it. But there’s nothing you can do. You WANT to return their touches to just rub their backs or upper arms. But you just can’t. You are restrained. And you have no choice but to lay back and allow your partner to tease and please you.

* You bring a blind fold into the bed. It’s been a long time since you’ve made love in complete blackness. It feels strange. And why do your partner’s touches feel so much more intense? Why can you smell their familiar and comforting scent so much stronger? Why does their body taste so much better? And their breathing sounds much heavier?  It’s because when you take away a sense (in this case your sense of sight), all your other senses become stronger. This type of sensory play can be very exciting and super sexy.

* You’ve purchased some fun items to spice up the bedroom. Not only did you buy a feather tickler, but you also bought a rubber tasseled flogger (fancy name for a type of bedroom whip). All your intentions are for your partner to use them on you. You want to experience pleasureable pain. Or maybe some painful pleasure? Let’s say your partner gets behind you and you both move slow. VERY slow. The focus is on your backside. The feathers tickle, then the whip stings. They go deeper. You feel tickle then sting then tickle. So simple, yet so sexy!

* Maybe you like it rough? Don’t worry, this is a hugely popular “like”. Maybe you want to be wildly tied to your bedposts and have you lover take complete control of your ‘helpless’ self. Go ahead and have wild hair-pulling, crazy wild sex! In the case of role play, you’ll want to agree on a code word that really DOES mean to stop. Something totally unrelated. “Bathroom is broken” or “NY Cheesecake”. See? Something that your trusted partner can understand means “let’s break for a sec”.

So, have fun and be safe! The possibilities are endless in bed and the options are all yours to explore!

Take a look at my online store and be sure to click Feathers & Fetish. Browse through 4 pages of various items to starting adding this touch of excitement to your love life!